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Your fellow social introverted sista from another mista!
In this space, you’ll find an honest glimpse into my daily life as an introverted Black woman striving to balance my gift of communication with my need for quiet solitude. This journey hasn’t always been easy and has led to multiple identity crises (yes, I’ve had more than a few, LOL!), mental health struggles, and ongoing conversations with God about my existence. All of that has brought me here, where I share my past and present experiences as I navigate life’s ups and downs while staying true to my God-given identity. Join me as I offer insights, wisdom, and stories that guide me in crafting the life of my dreams, all while embracing my reality, one word at a time!
Curious if this space aligns with your journey and is where you belong? Are you:
Undercover Witty.
You love sharing your thoughts… just not always out loud. Sometimes you’d rather let a witty T-shirt or a well-timed meme speak for you because anything else is just too much energy that you don’t always have.
A subtle socialite.
You enjoy socializing and can hold your own in conversations, but just because you’re good with words doesn’t mean you’re an extrovert!
A reserved powerhouse.
You hate being underestimated—yes, you can be reserved But also still own the room when the moment’s right.
A conversational wordsmith.
You’ve got social skills that break the introvert mold, but just because you’re great at conversation doesn’t mean you don’t need your recharge time.
A walking paradox.
You’re an introvert with a twist and don’t fit the typical introvert stereotype, navigating the daily struggle to express, that being introspective and socially savvy isn’t mutually exclusive.
An uncharted trailblazer!
You’re not here to be boxed in and refuse to fit into a one-size-fits-all label. You know you are destined for more than the limits of an extroverted-focused world, and you’re daily navigating through and to that freedom of authentic self-expression.
If one or more of the traits above resonated with you, then it sounds like you’re a social introvert, aka an introverted communicator!
A safe space where we get to be both quiet and LOUD; because we can.
Did You Know?
According to a random sample by the Myers-Briggs organization statistics showed, that introverts make up a little over half of the United States general population.
Society often pushes us as introverts to feel marginalized and overshadowed, with all the lively, fast-paced, charismatic energy swirling around us. It can seem like extroverts run the world, while we’re left as mere quiet subjects, to shrink in their wake. Yet, this dynamic highlights the balance introverts bring—our presence is indeed more inclusive, grounding, and ultimately more vital than both the world and even we may realize.
50.7%
Introvert General U.S. Population
49.3%
Extrovert General U.S. Population
This is more than about being recognized as an introvert, but about being valued for who we truly are in ALL our facets.
And I believe that starts with someone being brave enough to step from the shadows they’ve been pushed in or even voluntarily hiding in. To walk forward and share their experience, to bridge the gap between understanding and value. I hope that my shared journey, along with those who join the IC tribe, will facilitate us learning to embrace our authentic identities together, in all of its complexities, and be empowered to walk freely in who we authentically are and continually evolving to be.
Authenticity First
We believe in honoring our true selves and encourage others to embrace their identity, free from the constraints of stereotypes and expectations. For it’s in living in the truth, that we gain the gift of true freedom.
Empowered Expression
We create space for unapologetic self-expression, reminding others that our voices are powerful, our thoughts have depth, and our presence speaks volumes.
Courageous Ambition
We celebrate the strength in stepping out from the shadows, advocating for introverts to take up space they already possess in the world, by pursuing and achieving big dreams; and thriving in life beyond the limitations placed on us.
Inclusive Value Through Understanding
We aim to bridge gaps in understanding by sharing the experiences of us, particularly as socially gifted introverts, building a community where everyone genuinely feels seen and valued. This deeper understanding not only strengthens our unity but fosters a culture that invites others to recognize and appreciate our unique identities.
Championing Our Voices Through Self-Honor
We emphasize awareness and celebration of our communication skills without imposing the expectations often associated with extroverted traits, asserting the importance of recognizing our limits as introverts. We advocate for a balanced appreciation that acknowledges our social gifts while also honoring our inherent need for solitude and quiet. By advocating for this balance, we empower ourselves and each other to thrive authentically, ensuring our voices loudly resonate while our spirits remain peacefully grounded.
Collective Evolution
We embrace the idea that being in fellowship with others serves as a powerful catalyst for personal evolution, enriched by our shared experiences, education, and celebration. This collective support nurtures our growth, empowering each of us to evolve while reminding us that solitude isn’t the only place we thrive as introverts. We believe a healthy balance of solitude and connection is essential in enabling us to grow individually while thriving as a collective.
Hey friend hey! I’m your people and you’re mines too!
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The 3 Core Values of the IC Tribe
Authenticity. Growth. Connection